there is one way that i am absolutely not an inbetweener.
in the ongoing battle between cat people and dog people, i come out
solidly in favor of kytyns. (kytyn=non-patriarchal kytyn. take the
ten out of kitten! take back the kytyn! okay, so i'm silly, in case
you hadn't already noticed...)
i grew up with a cat. he was a stray when my family got him (i was
probably about ten years old) and he was a dignified mature cat from
the beginning. reminded me a lot of my uncle. very self-confident,
very respectful of others. still had a silly streak, with occasional
pouncy kytyn moods up until the year he died. but generally self-sufficient
and agreeable to be around, a cat who knew how to take care of himself
and stayed with people out of affection and mutual respect.
he died two years ago. i wrote a sad story about him when he was
dying, it's named blacky.
the kytyn in my life now is an entirely different story. we got
her when she was a sweet little ball of grey fluff who could fit on
my hand. now she is a hellraiser. stroking her is like petting a bundle
of roses, gorgeous silky petals tempt your touch and then attack you
with thorns. my hands and one arm are all marked up right now cause
i petted her last week.
still i love her. i have devised many embarassing nicknames for
her, i pet her regularly and deal with the scars.
evil kytyn and kytyn rules of tennis are about her.